Many parents face the challenge of children's constant refusal, often stemming from a need for control or independence. Every child says “no” at some point —sometimes often, sometimes loudly.

But I’ve noticed that when [my daughter] says no to a kiss or cuddle, my mum always says things like “don’t be silly, of course you can hug your nanny”, and just goes in for the kiss ...

While many parents use threats or bribery to manage their child’s misbehavior, experts recommend positive reinforcement strategies for better results. CNN values your feedback 1.

Logical, silent consequences work better than lectures. When the child refuses to do what’s asked—say, getting ready for an outing—there’s no need to argue.