Someone who loves you will respect you and commit to a proper relationship. My support pack Your Lover Not Free is about being in love with a married man. It will explain the pitfalls of this ...

I am frustrated, angry and confused ... In fact, it seems cliche. Your lover has lost interest in you. Whether this is because she wants to preserve her marriage or because she has found someone ...

DEAR DEIDRE: MY secret lover makes me feel far happier in the few fleeting moments we are together than my husband ever has. Admittedly, the rest of the time he drives me mad with mixed signals.

I love him, but I am done being his enabler ... To do this may require your talking with a therapist because it is almost guaranteed your son will be back trying to enlist your help.

In real life. Projecting unrealistic fairytale expectations onto your love life makes it hard to answer the question: "Am I in love?" If you believe happily-ever-after means everything always ...

But since real love means letting your partner be his or herself, you need to respect your partner's need for independence and the autonomy to sometimes do things without you. When you're having a ...